I read an article (or saw an Oprah show) about abused small children. According to this, if given a choice, the abused child would cry to be returned to the abusing parent …….until they knew there was a different way to live. Being ignorant of how other families functioned, they thought that that was the way life is. It was all they knew.
So, it is wonderful to know the difference and to be allowed to choose in Jesus’ name. AMEN